Breaking “The Code”: Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Friend’s Ex?

This is why I hate us. We were just trying to protect you – ok, and laughing behind your back also I asked who else knew, she said to her knowledge, just her and my ex’s best friend. The friend said they have made up this elaborate lie to tell me, so it will appear they have just started dating. They have already laid the groundwork to tell me this lie, so I know it’s coming. If they did, they wouldn’t have lied to you.

My Best Friend Is Dating My Ex Girlfriend And The World Says It Was My Fault

Evan, This may be an age-old question. My boyfriend is best friends with his ex-girlfriend. They dated for two and a half years, broke up 5 years ago, have many mutual friends. They met in graduate school and went through some hard times together, so I understand why they stay friends.

The easy answer is “your best friend isn’t really your best friend if he’s dating your ex” – well that’s what a real best friend should do. The challenge is that we are human; we are bi .

However, she adored my family, so she continued to hang around with them – parents, brothers, etc. Fast forward another year or two, and THEY get married I am named after my father like a junior So THEY name their first son that My ex-GF now shrieks my name every time Lil’ Taylor gets into s–t. He proposed and she turned him down saying she was too young Six months later, he and my mom got married. My mom was freshly divorced from a physically abusive man and had two young boys to take care of, so I think that had a lot to do with her motivation.

My dad had a good job and had always had a thing for her, just dated the sister as a second best, he said. Sad but they were married for 25 years before he passed. However, I was raised believing my aunt was a drug addicted prostitute. My mom hated her because of an incident where my aunt tried to win him back The whole situation was a family secret till I was older.

Ex and I were really close friends for years met her through another ex actually and tried dating for a while, it didn’t work because I couldn’t really stop seeing her as a friend only.

I am dating my ex boyfriend’s bestfriend… for revenge!!!

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Advice for a woman who wrote to tell me, “My ex and my best friend are dating:” As I just passed the one-year anniversary of my divorce, I’ve learned that.

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper “ttyl after I’ve thought about this some more”. Dear Dish-It, My ex-boyfriend cheated on me so we broke up. After four months of trying to get back with me, he gave up and is now dating my best friend. My best friend knows that he’s a player , but the one thing that she doesn’t know is that he’s only dating her to get back at me.

I’m afraid if I tell her, she’ll say I just want to make her mad and I don’t. Should I tell her? And your BFF is aware of what a jerk he was to you, but still decided to hook up with him? Sounds to me like you should just sit back, relax and let your best friend figure out for herself that your ex is a slime ball. There’s no use telling her that he’s only dating her to get back at you cuz by the sounds of it, you don’t know that for sure.

You’re just assuming that he’s still crazy about you, when he more than likely just got tired of chasing you around. Who knows, maybe the two of ’em are meant for each other? If that’s the case, then you’re much better off without either of them in your life. That’s really good advice.

My ex-husband might be dating my friend

Elaine So I recently broke up with my boyfriend Although I broke up with him I still have feelings for him. So yesterday I find out they have been flirting and that made me mad. And a couple hours after that I find out she asked him out. I was really jealous and I got mad. What do I do?

My best friend dated my sister for a and i are 4 years apart and my friend is dating my brother very close, though my friend is dating my brother i’ve never felt like i needed to act like a big brother with ‘s a smart and sensible girl, and my friend is an extremely kind and trustworthy guy.

My ex girlfriend is dating my ‘best friend’ behind my back July 19th, , I felt really gutted as I really liked her a lot and especially as her friends are also my friends so we have to see each other out a lot. This made it quite hard to move on but it has been around 4 months since we called things off. However, during this time, my so called best friend has been flirting loads with her every time we are out together as a group.

At first, I thought she tried to make me jealous, to try and show me what I was missing but then the flirting progressively got more and more intense whenever they saw each other. I asked my friend about it and he said he sees her as a friend and nothing more because she is my ex. He then said to me that he would never even think about going there and that they are just good friends, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt as there was no concrete evidence but my gut instinct was telling me not to trust him at all.

However, I have now found out that my ex and my ‘best friend’ have been messaging constantly for a while now and are going to meet up together with just those two in private and the plan is to go back to his house. He didn’t even tell me about this, I found out through a mutual friend. So I secretly know but I’m not suppose to know that my ex and ‘best friend’ are now dating. I also still have feelings for this girl deep down as she was my first girlfriend and even though me and her only lasted 5 months, it still kills me knowing that she is with someone else and that person is my ‘best friend’.

I don’t know what to do. If I act angry and annoyed which is what I am feeling then I could mess up other friendships within the group and make things awkward for the rest of the group which I don’t want to do.

One more step

Two years ago in college I met a girl, we quickly became very very close friends. So much so that we quickly developed a code way of talking that only her and I know. Later during the year I fell for her, hard!!! Till this day there’s not a minute that passes without me thinking about her or wanting to message her. She knows I would drop everything of mine just to make her happy, she once lost her phone and I couldn’t sleep going though town like a madman for two days looking for her phone, lol I was ready to search for it as long as I lived because it meant so much to her, I eventually found it though after only two days.

I told her how I feel about her, She didn’t say anything acted like nothing happened, our friendship continued, then late last year lol I taught myself how to compose music, how to record music just so I could record her a song telling her that I love her

The dilemma I’m dating this amazing problem is he is my best friend’s ex. She and I were soul sisters, spoke on the phone for hours, had sleepovers all the time.

When I was in high school, my best friend went behind my back and started dating my ex-boyfriend when I went on vacation. I was devastated, especially because she knew I still had feelings for him. At first, we got in a huge fight and I thought we would never be friends again. Then I missed her, we made up, and I tried to pretend I was okay with her dating him. Hearing her talk about him was torture for me, being with them together was even harder. We got in a fight, and after that, we really did stop being friends forever.

I still miss her sometimes, and I still wish he was never in the picture. I bet she does, in some way. Yes, there are exceptions to everything, but in the majority of cases, the friend will lie.

Fucked my best friends wife. True story

My best friend is dating my ex. Asked Jun 18, , We got back together.

Mar 14,  · When I was in high school, my best friend went behind my back and started dating my ex-boyfriend when I went on vacation. I was devastated, especially because she knew I still had feelings for him. At first, we got in a huge fight and I thought we would never be friends again.

Fucked my best friends wife. True story Posted Jan 8, by anonymous views 13 comments user a few years ago I fucked my best friends wife several times. She was a sexy Mexican gal in her late 20’s with nice tits. She was always flirting with me when I’d go over, even in front of my friend. It was to the point she would lay on my lap while we were all watching movies. She would kiss me and give me hickies when he’d leave the room. I took him a couple times what she was doing and he basically just turned a blind eye to it.

Then one day we were at an event together and they invited me over after. For whatever reason she rode with me back and she flat out asked me if I wanted to fuck her! Duh, she was hot. We pulled over on a back road and I fucked her in the back of my truck.

I DATED MY BEST FRIEND’S EX?


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